Do you fell uncomfortable n the social situation or do you
just avoid them altogether? Do you feel your palm and heart trembling? Do you
heart beat faster and have rapid breathing? Those are sign of shyness. That is
what I felt every time I am talking to others or during class recitation. Always stammer and can not speak or think
clearly.
I read lots
of article about “ How To Overcome Your Shyness?” At am happy first it was really hard but I am happy
because little by little I learned how to break out of my shell.
Don't let
others stereotype you. If you are always shy, they will think you are weak and
can not do anything. It feels like they don't believe in what you said and
doesn't want you to interact during group discussions.
Are you
afraid of reporting in front of your classmates? Do you always think, “what if
I failed?, “what if my classmates laugh at me?, “what if I messed up?. Hey! Of
course you have to practice. Like the old says “ practice makes perfect”.
First, gather all the information you need in your report. Read your report
many times until you already know your topic. For sure you didn't have to
memorize your report. Then practice delivering your speech in front of the
mirror. Always do this prior to the date of your report. Prepare some guide
cards before your report. During the report, speak louder so you classmates may
hear what you are saying. Have a self-confidence!
“The way you overcome your shyness is to become so wrapped up
in something you forget to be afraid” --- Former U.S. First lady, Claudia
Johnson.
Is it hard
for you to ask permission from your parents or friends, because probably they
would say NO? Well remember that you will always get no if you never ask them
of what you want. Whatever it is you should try, there's nothing to loose.
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